David Wisnia and Helen Tichaur offered comfort and
solace to one another amidst the horrors of Auschwitz but were forced apart by
the nazis. It took 72 years, but the two lovers were finally reunited.
In 1944, David Wisnia and Helen “Zippi” Spitzer
were two Jewish prisoners and secret lovers who, against all odds, managed to
survive the Auschwitz Nazi death camp. But toward the end of the war, they were
separated after Wisnia was transferred to the Dachau concentration camp.
They lost each other and had no way to contact one
another, except for a plan to meet again at a community center in Warsaw once
the conflict had ended.
That meet-up never coalesced and their lives took
them in completely different directions. But as fate would have it, the former
couple would be reunited again — 72 years later in America.
As reported by the New York Times, the survivor
couple’s long-overdue reunion finally took place in August 2016 at Spitzer’s
apartment in New York City. It was the first time the two had seen each other
since they were both imprisoned in Auschwitz decades ago.
“I was waiting for you,” Spitzer, who continues to
go by her late husband’s surname Tichauer, confessed to her ex-boyfriend upon
their reunion. She had waited for him in Warsaw as the couple had planned. But
Wisnia, whose survival instincts took him on a path that led to his migration
to America, never showed.
It was a bittersweet revelation. The two first met
in Auschwitz in 1943, in a highly-irregular meeting; male and female prisoners
were separated by gender, so only those who had special privileges were able to
move somewhat freely around the camp as both Wisnia and Tichauer did.
Wisnia’s singing abilities had him promoted from
removing bodies of suicide prisoners to become the Nazi guards’ entertainer,
and was given an office job disinfecting the prisoners’ clothing using Zyklon-B
pellets — the same ones used for the gas chambers.
After working on the camp as a laborer and
suffering bouts of typhus, malaria, and diarrhea, Tichauer’s design skills
coupled with her ability to speak German landed her privileged work as the
camp’s graphic designer. Her duties included marking female prisoners’ uniforms
and registering new female arrivals.
After the couple’s first meeting, Tichauer paid
off inmates with food so they could continue meeting each other safely, in
secret. They met in a tiny space among the prisoners’ clothing about once a
month while others would be their lookout for 30 minutes to an hour each time
they met.
“I had no knowledge of what, when, where,” Wisnia,
now 93, told the Times. “She taught me everything.” But it was more than that.
At their reunion, Wisnia finally discovered just how much Tichauer used her
influence to keep him alive.
“I saved you five times from bad shipment,” she
told him candidly from her sickbed. Tichauer also used her office job to help
the resistance against the Nazis anyway she could, manipulating paperwork to
reassign inmates to different jobs and barracks, and sneaking official camp
reports out to various fighter groups.
The lovers’ time came to an end when news spread
that the Russians were inching closer. Both miraculously managed to escape
during the transfer of prisoners between camps and went on to marry other
people. Wisnia settled down with his family in Levittown, Pennsylvania, while
Tichauer wound up in New York City with her husband.
Finally, after a previous failed attempt to
meet-up in their old age, they saw each other again in 2016. Wisnia, along with
two of his grandchildren — who had heard their grandfather’s story of his
surviving love from Auschwitz — visited Tichauer at her apartment.
Unlike Wisnia, she had no surviving children to
her name and her old age had taken away much of her hearing and eyesight.
Nevertheless, nothing could prevent her from
recognizing the young boy she once held dear, even after all these years. “My
God,” she said. “I never thought that we would see each other again — and in
New York.” The couple spent two hours together, laughing and catching up.
“She said to me in front of my grandchildren, she
said, ‘Did you tell your wife what we did?'” Wisnia recalled of their little
reunion. “I said, ‘Zippi!'” But it wasn’t all humor; some long-kept words were
finally uttered as Tichauer told Wisnia she had loved him then. He said the
same.
Before he left her apartment for the last time,
Tichauer asked her once-lover to sing for her as he did in Auschwitz. He took
her hand and sang a special song for the two of them: a Hungarian tune Tichauer
had taught him 72 years ago at the camp.
Sadly, in 2018, Tichauer passed away at the age of
100. Though it was the last they saw of each other, the lovers’ bond that was
built amid the direst of circumstances remains strong even now. More of
Wisnia’s account is chronicled in his 2015 memoir One Voice, Two Lives: From
Auschwitz Prisoner to 101st Airborne Trooper which also mentions his former
love.
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